Tuesday, 20 November 2012


Hiyaaaaaaa… meet again.. I’m busy with my new work.. busy with wedding planning…
Yup! Wedding bell is ringing~~~ InsyaAllah…

Honestly.. this entire planning-a-wedding is tiring and worn me out. Now, 135 days before the wedding. But I almost kering, where more than 70% things not done yet, not paid yet.. haaa cry out loud!.... I’m definitely not rich girl, no one to sponsor me.. all by my own.. now what I can do to minimize everything, I will do it.

In the meantime, I’m looking for other alternative to find extra money.. any suggestion??

Wednesday, 14 November 2012

Spider web!

ALERT: this is not an article on spider web or its benefit to human.

It is just……… my blog has been abandoned for such a long long time.. phew~~~ I should make sometimes for this..

And why Nuffnang seems not working anymore… I wonder………

Thursday, 11 October 2012

Runaway Maid

ALERT! This post may contain inappropriate word. Not suitable for those underage. And please be informed that this post is not amusing despite of the title.

Please be alert to people out there, in Kuala Lumpur perhaps all over Klang Valley.

Wirda Nurvita Laila
Note: Her name can be differ. But the mark on the face couldn't be mistake! 

On Monday 8th October 2012, my family Indonesian maid has run from our home in Ampang, Selangor. Her duty with our family is mostly just cleaning. Yup u hear me right, we paid her to clean and stayed with my mom in our hometown, Kuala Selangor, whereas we will come back every weekend. Occasionally we will bring our mom to KL and of course the maid will tag along.

Let me tell u how luxury is the maid for working with us.
-         she come to us with just a small school bag (I bet my niece’s school bag is much more bigger than her bag).. but she runaway with three.. yes three (3) big and full bags not include the one school bag she bring from Indonesia. Thanks to myself and my sister for giving her out seasoned cloth (mind u: it is not torn, all in perfect condition just we don’t wear it anymore coz I’m getting bigger)
-         she got her own room wherever she stay, in hometown, in KL.. with full accomodition.. free flow of soap, shampoo.. even towel when she keep ‘forgot’ to bring her own.
-         She never left out whenever we eat.. in the house or when we go outside.. there she still dare to make faces to you! Sengaja buat muka masam right in front of me when I bring my mom out for dinner in Chilis. Just because she don’t like to not have rice for dinner.. bugger right?? I really feel like slapping her face right there. Same goes when my sister bring my mom outing and shopping in Ampang Park, the maid made those bastard face coz she don’t like to walk and walk and walk (shopping kot majikan ko tu.. ko ikut jelah.. sepak kang!)
-         She wake up at 8-9am everyday.. sleep after lunch until 4pm and at night she sleep at 8pm!! We advice her, baik-baik but she still back to the habit..
-         She’s not even cooking! All the cooking my mom did.. the very ungrateful maid..

Eventually that’s not make her to think (I doubt if she ever think at all!) that she lived a luxury life here despite of story how poor is her family in Indonesia until she couldn’t afford to have chicken on the table except once a year.

She work with us for less than 3months where after a month and half she keep crying and dramatically crying begging to send her back to the agent. Her work is lousy, talks too much and won’t ever listen to you. If u asked her to chores A, she will stood there, like a dumb, and do something else!

Frankly, I’m not the one who easily and freely would like her to do any chores. If I can do by myself, I will do it.. coz the point I got her to accompany my mom and help my mother do the house chores.

Here is the chronology of her disappearance:

One month back: she keep whining and crying said she cannot work anymore, she’s been missing her son and daughter and she want to go back to the agent and going back to Indonesia.
Last week: FOMEMA test for the maid failed! She has scars in her lung, infection of TIBI!!!!
Last Sunday, 7th Oct 2012: my sister brings my mom (and her of course) to KL. We supposed to settle with Imigresen and send her back to agent on Monday. She didn’t have any clue about this. We were out for shopping on the evening and back home around 815pm.. after prayers, I come down, she already sleep at the sofa in front of TV.. I was irritated and super angry, I went to the kitchen, pre-heat the rice, dishes for dinner when my mom come down. The maid said she’s feeling unwell. My mom gave her panadol and I said to her to get her dinner before consume any medicine. After that I told her not to sleep in front of the TV and sleep in the room. God! That room is for her to sleep. Why she wants to sleep in front of TV?? Then we supposed to watch her instead of TV?? Or we don’t have any privileges to watch TV in our home just because the ungrateful maid was sleeping in front of it?? I’ll slap her face if she said so.. (if I know she will run, I surely slap her that night)..
Monday, 8th Oct 2012: I left for work.. my mom at home with her.. she’s not doing any chores.. eating breakfast and crying at the same time. Then she’s asking about road, about gate and so on at my mom.. then she’s crying again, asking her handphone from my mom saying that she missed her children.. bugger……… at 12pm she had her lunch, my mom said it is unusual since she normally eats at 1pm.. then she keep asking my mom, is it prayers time yet? It is? It is? Then my mom take a nap, she woke my mom at around 1.30pm, asking my mom to get her prayers done. My mom (normal for old folks not to delayed the prayers time) went upstairs, prays in my room.. and about 1.50pm, my mom come down and the maid gone! Gone with all her bags and also she’s stealing piggy bank with amount about RM100.00.
Monday night: she contacted agent and claimed that she’d been bullied and tortured by us. She’s suffered while working with us.

There….. the story of very ungrateful maid.

If u ever come across this women, aged around 30-40’s (even she claimed she’s 25.. fuck her!) please be careful. Medical report shown that she got TIBI and she run without any documentation with her. No passport, no permit. She is literally is ILLEGAL. Please contact IPD Ampang Jaya at 03-4252 2222 immediately. Do not hire her. She’s cunning bastard. Drama queen.

Letter to Abah…

Ara Damansara,

I’ve been thinking of u lately… why is it… mom said she keep dreaming of u.. owh I cant bear listening to her.. that bring grim lines to her face.. she missed u a lot.. we all do.. how could I let her go back alone.. she wont eat.. who would look after her..

Do u remember.. we hired a maid a week before u go.. she ran away last Monday.. we left mom and her at home, and suddenly after zohor mom discovered that she’s gone.. run away just like that.. and she claim she suffered working with our family.. haihh.. now mom will be alone until we get replacement maid.. I know she upset for not staying in our home in hometown.. but I couldn’t let her stay there alone..

There are so many thing… so so many… how Leesa keep asking to come back home and get u to the clinic.. how Ayeen occasionally calling your name.. not to mention, how badly I want u to be on my wedding..

I know that wouldn’t do.. we will hold to the facts that u will wait for us up there, in heaven we will meet again as a family.. till then we will live on with u in our heart.. we deeply missed u, Abah..


Yours Truly,

Wednesday, 10 October 2012


What did u do when u upset?

Tell the one u love….. but at last it is U who make people upset..


Keep it to yourself.

Wrote it in your blog and let anonymous read it..


Thursday, 27 September 2012


I found this quote today in Instagram #keepingitreal

I don’t have time to hate people
Who hate me
Because I’m too busy loving people
Who love me…

It is so true………………

Monday, 24 September 2012

Friday, 21 September 2012

Funny yeah?............

Yesterday is a busy day for me… no lunch as well.. trying to meet the deadline make me rush in validating. Blaming myself for taking half a day just to check on one country.. but I had too. And it cause headache, frankly since morning till now it is still there.. I dunno how to make it ease (except panadol) but I made it! I meet the deadline. Haha.. right after, I rush for a meeting with fellow colleague and client.

Then only I laugh to myself when I come across this email from myBoo. He’s mocking me since last Raya. I didn’t know the exact ways to prepare nasi minyak. But he always had it on Raya while me and family never allowed nasi prepared on that day. But for my fiancĂ©e, yeah we did prepare… I did actually. I just dump in all the appropriate spices. Hehehe… but it turns out quite well. Just not as yellowish as normally. There myBoo mocking me (*sigh).

Here I share the email…

Resepi nasi minyak (*smile)


Beras Basmathi yang hidup
Minyak Sapi QBB bkn lembu QBB
Minyak Masak yg kena masak dulu kalau tak MASAK kau!!!!
Air Halia bkn utk buang angin
Bawang Kecil bkn besar punyeee!!!!
Bawang Putih kaler putih
Daun Pandan Jauh ke Tengah
Bunga Lawang
Bunga Cengkih bkn utk buat rokok daun
Buah Pelaga
Kulit Kayu Manis yg tak manis pun
Tairu (Air Limau + Susu Cair) bkn utk mabuk2
Garam Kasar
Air Mawar utk masak bkn utk orang mati
Hampas Halia bkn HAMPEHHH!!!

Somehow it manages to get me laugh during the meeting. LOL!

p/s: the recipe above is accurate and exactly the ingredient to make nasi minyak but myBoo’s friend trying to make it out as a joke.. I should try it at home..

Wednesday, 19 September 2012


Ok.. few entry will bring unpleasant feelings but I ought to share it.. I must let it go from my heart.. I cant keep it anymore, it is killing me..

Today, 50 days went by since u left us… u left mum trembling through her heart.. facing her day without u.. u left us without a word.. u left the kids wondering whereabouts u.. it is something we knew by heart that u will be leaving us.. the day 11th July 2012 when I took u from the hospital, I knew it. By all mean the doctor had the word with me. And I am the one who signed the letter.. release letter from the hospital… we bring to homey.. and after 20 days, u left us.

I will always remember that morning, Wednesday 1st August 2012.. it is fasting month.. as usual on 430am, me, mum, sis and our new maid, it is her 7th day staying with us to help mum with the housechores, wakes up for sahur. It is normal for u to not sleeping at night, we heard u saying something, when I drop in your room, u just looked at me without word. U remember I didn’t go to work on Monday.. I fall sick throughout fasting month. But on Monday I didn’t really sick u know.. it is just me feels like wanna sit around, at home. It is a feeling that I need to spend sometimes with u. 2 days after that, in the cold morning, u left us. I still can hear mum urge me from my sleep, heard her screaming when the paramedic confirming that u are gone.. and I had to be strong.. stronger than everyone else coz I know I need to.

Despite of everything… I am thankful and relief that u go in ease.. and u are not suffering anymore. I can’t bear to see u lying and full of pain. How u use to be strong and there u are, cant even raised your hand. Alhamdulillah… that day everything went out smooth. Praise to Allah. Thanks to everyone. Family, neighbors, villagers. Thanks to myBoo for being with me through it. Thank u dear.. it mean a lot to me and family.

I admit that I still crying at night now. I still can smell u in the house. I still can feels like u were the in the room, watching me. I can hear u asking me ‘adikk balik sorg?’ (am I coming back hometown alone), the normal 1st question u will ask me when I get home.. I know u don’t. It is only my feelings. I thought I can always be strong like how I face it when u was away for about 10 years. But that’s different rite… at least that time around, we occasionally visits u. I knew u there, alive, talking to us. It is totally different now.

We had gone through this Syawal without u. we don’t take family photo as usual. We don’t take any photo at all. Mum is the most affected person. Of course. U are her everything. And she’s with u for the past 45 years. Through the dark.. through the brightest day.. we will get through all incoming days without u, at presence but we keep u in our heart. May your soul rest in peace Abah. We will visit u whenever we goes back to hometown. We will take a very good care of mum. We loves u…

Al-Fatihah for my late father, Abas bin Haji Mashor…

Ice Breaker

Months has passed since my last serious entry… due to some circumstances I was deserting my blog….

As per previous entry, I had left out from my job.. thank God I found new one as soon as the olds company shut down. God is helping me, especially in financial ways.. I’m really thankful for that.. or is that cause of I’m preparing for my wedding (yeah I talk bout it but never had anything confirmed yet.. nothing… and I am really depressed..).. people said God will make your life easier when u desired for a good thing.. what I really hope now; I hope there is a good thing.. that is what I wanted for this whole years.. and eventually it breaks my heart.. I hope someone understand my feelings… all this.. I’m not trying to push, but it is only me who hoping…. Is it only me to changed and I did and I never ever stop to be how u want me to be.. nothing to be proud eh…

Hurmm… how I wanted to wrote about my life path, what has happened to me lately.. but I really feels like a sucks… I can smile, I can laugh and I still can make people laugh.. but I felt empty inside me.. I know it is time for me to do something with myself..

Thursday, 16 August 2012

Heart - Hard....

When someone isn't have the faith for you...........
When someone isn't just into you anymore.........
When someone might have others in their heart....
You are just like leftovers from last nite dinner... hopeless.... and helpless...

Wednesday, 15 August 2012

A Little Wishlist....

I woke up this morning, despite of the stomach pain I had, from my house driving all the way to office, a journey of an hour was filled with my thought of San Francisco and NYC. Yes it is right. I fall in love with the place. And as a determination, I wish I could spend my retirement there, in SF, specifically Sausalito. (Yeah it is the place after England and Australia).

I find it calming. The scenery was beyond great. Plant and sea is my thing. Kinda boring for some people, but I’m looking at somewhere calming to retreat. How I wish I could visit there sometimes sooner.

Ok girl, saving up! You got places to visit.

There.. there... isn't it easy to fall in love with this

Monday, 2 July 2012

Heart Burst - Part II

ahhh.... so long frens... so many stories in between... bitter sweet... a lot bitterness.. hehe.. but still have the sweetness...

At this moment, all I need to do is cuddling into a ball n never woke up again.....

Why at the moment I breath out my joys that I have been waiting like ages, then there comes the storm as well.. can't I be happy longer and enjoy the feelings... hurmm... patience is highly needed.. but I felt like thrown from a building.. very very down....

Thursday, 3 May 2012

Heart Burst!............. Part 1

I should have abundant myself in any isolated island and live there.. Yes I think I should do that…

I did not ask for anything but only understanding and endless love. Why now I felt like the love isn’t there anymore.. is it really true I’m not doing anything.. isn’t it me thinking every seconds of you.. isn’t it me rush from one point to another point in life, work, or anything just for you… holding on anything and show the strongest part just for you.. keep all the sorrow and pain just to not let you knew how much I hurt inside.. coz I cant bear to see you worried sick about me..

I guess all the answer is NO… coz no one can do better than you or any other girl.. likewise said, others can do better than me.. what I did is talking.. no action… maybe it is time for me…. It is not me who belong there, in your heart…

Really is it not me… its hurt.. totally hurt… but this is not about me.. I only care about people I love the most.. it never about me… as long as my love is happy, it is ok with me to hurt..

Only one thing I wish to say, in case you haven’t aware yet… I LOVE U WITH ALL OF MY HEART.. until you said it is done between us, I will be here.. coz I don’t know where else I belong to be..

p/s: should start google on the island…….. any suggestion??

Monday, 26 March 2012

Song of The Week

I like this song.. Personally I just fall in love with this song.. The lyrics are full of meanings and very close to my heart…..

Ku menatap dalam kelam
Tiada yang bisa ku lihat
Selain hanya namaMu ya Allah

Esok ataukah nanti
Ampuni semua salahku
Lindungi aku dari segala fitnah

Kau tempatku meminta
Kau beriku bahagia
Jadikan aku selamanya
HambaMu yang selalu bertakwa

Ampuniku ya Allah
Yang sering melupakanMu
Saat Kau limpahkan karuniaMu
Dalam sunyi aku bersujud

Esok ataukah nanti
Ampuni semua salahku
Lindungi aku dari segala fitnah

Kau tempatku meminta
Kau beriku bahagia
Jadikan aku selamanya
HambaMu yang selalu bertakwa

Ampuniku ya Allah
Yang sering melupakanMu
Saat Kau limpahkan karuniaMu
Dalam sunyi aku bersujud

Kau tempatku meminta
Kau beriku bahagia
Jadikan aku selamanya
HambaMu yang selalu bertakwa

Ampuniku ya Allah
Yang sering melupakanMu
Saat Kau limpahkan karuniaMu

Dalam sunyi aku bersujud

Kebahagiaan Datang Dari Hati~

I found these word today…. KEBAHAGIAAN DATANG DARI HATI… happiness comes from your inside.. yes dear heart, makes the things that counted brings happiness and joys.. lets surround our heart with good feelings, be positive and look straight into the future.. always believe that Allah will give you the best, your prayers will be answered and have faith… I wish for a miracle on us… InsyaAllah……………

Monday, 19 March 2012

A Little of Something I Ask...

From the previous entry…………..

Well it is not as bad as everyone thought of.. at least I try not to think as it is.. my work is total mess.. the co I working on now will be shutting down their operations. Can’t wait till the 1st week of April for the official announcement. There are so many possibilities for us. Might be transfer to the headquarters’ office, might be redundant or maybe been absorbed by our client (if they likes us so much).. I dare not to say anything or assume anything. Just hope the best will come out and I will continue with my life. There’s an offer for me.. where I will definitely take it. I can’t bear not to take it. It is not my pride to be demanding. I can’t…

Never think I will face this phase in my life.. where judgments is crucial and I have to choose… I’ve been working so hard in so many things. I just wish I can get the ends as what I want it to be. Nevertheless, I know that anything could happen. To swallow it is a very tough, but to hold into it, I wonder if I’m the only one trying to hold tight. Tears is very to fall nowadays.. not to show weakness, but it is the only way to ease my feelings..

Will you be with me? Through the darkness… will you be with me? Endure this pain… I will always be here, as long as you need me to be.. to be your strength to be your courage… to be your enemy and to be your lovers… I really hope at this moment, there are miracles coming on my way shortly. Not for me, but for one that I care the most.. Please Allah, I need your help… show us some lights.. I really need Your guide…

Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku…
Sesungguhnya hambaMu ini telah banyak melupakanMu

Ampunkan dosa-dosa kami Ya Allah..
Berikanlah petunjuk dan hidayahMu buat kami
Ku mohon agar dipermudahkan jalan bagi kami

Ya Allah Yang Maha Kuasa..
Bukakan lah pintu hati kami
Bukakan lah pintu rezeki buat kami
Semoga apa yang kami usahakan
Apa yang kami impikan termakbul Ya Allah

Amin Ya Rabbal Alamin….

Song of The Week

Wow... One month passed without anything at all... Not something to boast about.. hmm.. I will tell in the next post… how my life turning upside down for the past few month..

It will be a cure for some people as I known as bringing a bad luck and not to be missed though........

Monday, 13 February 2012

Song of The Week

RIP Whitney Houston... Your music is people's inspiration...

Friday, 10 February 2012

Recipe: Hor Fun Mee with Teriyaki Chicken

Today I'll share a recipe (taken from my sis) of a simple yet healthy food.. Ok I doubt it....... Hehehe.. Here we go..

Hor Fun Mee

400g flat noodle (hor fun) - I used dried mee
1/2 tbsp dark soy sauce
1 tbsp light soy sauce
4 clove garlic - crushed
50g green mustard - chopped and boiled, put aside
10 pcs fishball
1 tbsp sesame oil
100g chicken breast - cut into cubes
1 egg
3 tbsp cornflour and 2 tbsp water - to make mixture
500ml chicken stock
Salt to taste

Chicken Teriyaki

250g chicken breast - cut into cubes
3 tbsp sweet soy sauce
3 tbsp dark soy sauce
2 tbsp twister blackcurrant - optional
1 teaspoon of crushed garlic
1 teaspoon of ginger
Mix all the ingredients and marinate for about an hour and grill on frying pan with a little of olive oil.

How to make:
1. Heat up the wok, add in 2 tbsp of oil and fry crushed garlic till fragrant.
2. Add in sesame oil, stir fry quickly and add in chicken breast and fishbLl, stir fry for one minutes.
3. Add in chicken stock, bring to boil, mix well then slowly pour in cornflour mixture and stir well to form thick gravy.
4. Add salt to taste, beat in the egg and remove heat. Stir till the egg mix well with the gravy.
5. The hor fun u can quickly stir fry with a little of garlic. Or me just now boiled it and pour the gravy on top. Served hot with some chicken teriyaki, green mustard, coriander and bird eye chilies.

Here the results.... Ok there's lacked of presentation skills.. haha..

Note: recipe has been adjusted accordingly to my liking

Monday, 6 February 2012

Song of The Week

It has been awhile...No! a long time (I swear I can see spider-cob hanging everywhere when I logging in just now) since my last update.. Forgive me for being very busy-tight-packed-jammed with my life and work. There are a lot lots to tell u guys.. so many stories.. movie review.. my journey… everything! I will try to update it from times to times. Not gonna let u down anymore… enjoice!

Monday, 9 January 2012

Song of The Week

Tuhan tolong lembutkan hati dia
Untuk terima ku seadanya
Kerna ku tak sanggup
Kerna ku tak mampu
Hidup tanpa dia di sisiku

Tuhan aku tahu banyak dosaku
Hanya ingat Kamu kala dukaku
Namun hanya Kamu yang mampu membuka
Pintu hatinya ‘tuk cintaku

Malam kau bawalah rinduku
Untuk dirinya yang jauh dariku
Agar dia tidak kesepian
Selalu rasa ada cinta agung

Hujan bawa air mataku
Yang mengalir membasuh lukaku
Agar dia tahu ku tersiksa
Tanpa cinta dia di hatiku

Hanya mampu berserah
Moga cahaya tiba nanti

Tuhan tolong lembutkan hati dia
Untuk terimaku seadanya
Kerna ku tak sanggup
Kerna ku tak mampu
Hidup tanpa dia di sisiku

Sunday, 8 January 2012


People know the other half of their partners very well... I can say that.. How many people gets the right thing done smoothly everytime is the luckiest person on earth. In that I admit one need to learn and master it. It is crucial to be alert for the other half, it is to sustained the relationship.. I often heard to get succesfull relationship, give and take is a must. I believe whatever it is, out there, many people struggles with this love matter. What is important to keep the sincerity and love deep in your heart, so that no matter it is, let your partner knows that u love them..

Things happened for a reason.. Mistakes aren't something to fool around.. Better to prevent from cure it coz it is parasite.. But there is no one really mean to make their loves heartbroken.. The truth cannot be hide, they loves u very much.. Very very much.....

I hope person who read this will understand that I care and I love so much.. More than anything could be compared. Till death part me with my love... I hope by the time my life ends, I could see the person whom I care and loves so much will smile happily and found whatever it is in life that ought to be full of bless... That's more than enough for me.. I love u with all of my heart.. I am sorry for everything..

Friday, 6 January 2012

Number That Make Me *gasp*

I’m very busy… very very busy with my payroll, my HR thingy, year end for some countries and also additional workload where I have to take over countries from my colleague. There I’m abandoning my blog, unattended.

But yesterday, myBoo happily send me an email and BBM… look up your email! He said… there’s a screenshot that makes me *gasping *drooling
Hahahahahaha… such an achievement for a fresh blogger like me and abVisible..
Thank you for readers.. Thanks for spend some times to read our posts. We appreciate that…

Bigger :-p
p/s: James Bond will be crying if he sees this as my no better than him… hahahaha

Sunday, 1 January 2012


I know... I know... It is quite late.

We, at Tales of An Asian Lady, wishing all readers precisely and everyone in this galaxy, a very Happy New Year of 2012! May this coming year bring joy, good health, prosperity and fun to everyones life. May success and luck accompany throughout the journey.. God bless....